
This is the type of story that, as a parent, makes me absolutely sick to my stomach. These events apparently happened in 2006, but is only gaining national attention now because of a story published by a St. Louis newspaper.
Anyway, a 13-year-old Dardenne Prairie, MO girl named Megan Meier allegedly committed suicide because of the way a person she met on MySpace treated her. The story is a bit convoluted, so I’m going to try to sum up here as best I can.
Megan became friends with a 16-year-old boy named Josh Evans who contacted her on MySpace. Josh was originally from Florida, had just moved to a nearby town, and was being homeschooled. Furthermore, his profile picture was cute, which was just another enticement for the overweight, unpopular Megan to add him as a friend.
The two began chatting on MySpace, and Megan viewed Josh as a true friend. Her parents report that she started making positive changes in her life because of her new friendship.
But then everything took a turn for the worse. Josh started sending Megan mean messages, saying that she treated her friends poorly, calling her “fat” and a “slut.” Then one day, he said that she was a “shitty” person and that the world would be better off without her.
Megan hanged herself in her closet shortly after that.
Later on, Megan’s parents learned that Josh Evans never even existed. It was a fake profile created by the parents of one of Megan’s former real-life girlfriends so those parents could find out what Megan was saying about their daughter online.
Can you believe this crap? It would be bad enough if Josh was actually a 16-year-old boy that bullied Megan into suicide, but for it to be the work of adults who should supposedly know better? Unbelievable.
What’s worse is that no charges will be filed against the idiotic adults involved in this case because they haven’t broken any clear-cut laws.
This whole story makes me so angry and sick that I can barely even type out what I feel here. I can’t believe that adults would stoop to this level and relentlessly bully a girl that hadn’t even done anything to them. Let’s face it, Megan was an easy target for bullies, what with being overweight and all. Kids are so damn insensitive that that’s enough to get them ostracized for their entire school careers. Megan certainly didn’t need the adults to pile on here.
The newspaper articles didn’t publish the names of the bullying adults in this case, and that was probably a good move. I can only imagine the kind of retribution that people would want to mete out to those assholes.